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368 Who Are Comparing Yourself To | Daily Show Up Darin Persinger

In this episode, Darin shares a touching experience with Morgan that prompts reflection on self-perception and the impact of comparing oneself to a past version.

Darin recounts a moment with his daughter, Morgan, who expressed admiration for him as strangers seemed to genuinely like him during their outings. This perspective took Darin by surprise, as he hadn't seen himself as exceptionally friendly. Delving deeper, he realized that his perception of himself had been influenced by comparing his current, more introverted self to his past, extroverted persona. This episode encourages listeners to reconsider self-comparisons and appreciate their present selves for who they've become.


  1. Unexpected Compliments: Morgan admired the way strangers responded positively to Darin, highlighting how others may perceive us differently than we see ourselves.

  2. Comparing Past and Present: Reflecting on his past extroverted self, Darin realized he had been comparing his current introverted nature unfairly, missing the value in his present traits.

  3. Adapting to Change: Over time, Darin adapted his behavior in response to perceived shifts in social interactions, learning to mirror and match others' energy.

  4. The Power of Perspective: Morgan's perspective on Darin shows the impact loved ones' views can have on self-esteem and self-identity.

  5. Embrace the Present Self: This episode encourages listeners to appreciate and celebrate their current selves, acknowledging the changes and adaptations that have shaped them.

Through his daughter's eyes, Darin gained a new appreciation for his present self, realizing that his past and present versions both have value. Embrace the unique and adapted person you are today, and remember that others may see you in a more positive light than you may think.

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